Supplies:
Broom, Ribbon
A fully decorated broom can be purchased at ethnic stores, or
a regular household broom will suffice. Broom sizes will vary,
but it doesn't matter which you choose. If you decide to use
your own broom and decorate it yourself, be sure it coordinates
with your wedding colors. Using your own broom can also be a
great bonding activity for the bridesmaids, perhaps the night,
or week before the wedding.
Feel free
to use bows, flowers (artificial or real), or other trinkets
to make it unique. But don't overdo it. You'll probably want
this for a keepsake in your home. Another idea is to have a
basket full of ribbon pieces at the wedding or reception and
allow guests to tie ribbons around the broom before you begin
the ceremony. This allows the audience to participate, which
is in keeping with the African tradition of community involvement.
The
Ceremony
Have your host ask guests to form a circle around the couple
as they stand in front of the broom on the floor.
The host
should discuss the symbolism behind the broom as it relates
to the joining of the couple and the combining of two families,
and the need for the community to support the couple. Meanwhile
have the couple hold the broom handle together and sweep around
in a circle until the host or designated person is finished
talking.
The groom
should then place the broom on the floor and hold the bride's
hand.
Have
everyone count 1, 2, 3... Jump!